Tattoos

I am thinking of getting a tattoo. Now that I'm 18, I mean. I think it's a good plan. I don't want to get something that I'm going to regret though. And I don't want to get something that's going to leave a nasty scar if I have to get it removed. I want to somehow incorporate things that are important to my life. Music. Love. Family. Friends. (and if I could find something cute with stars, that would be stellar, get it? stars; stellar? haha. I crack myself up.) Anyway, considering the possibility that after high school, I meet someone that I don't want to kill 24/7, and he wants to marry me, I don't want a huge gaudy tattoo sticking out of my dress. Also, I really want something I won't be embarrased to explain to my grandchildren. If I have something permanantly attached to my skin, until the day I die, I don't want to look at it every day, and say, "Why did I do this?"

HELP!!!